It's on a cold Saturday afternoon.People are covered in heavy jackets,hoodies,trenchcoats,warm caps,scarfs...name them.Meanwhile,am seated on the last row near a corner in java house,Sarit center mall,enjoying my hot coffee.Trust me,it's frezzing cold.My coffee is almost halfway and am   expecting by the time it finishes,it will have warmed me up.Suddenly,a tall lady walks in.She's rocked in pink heels and a blue cotton dress.There's something about her that attracts the attention.It's not about her dressing nor her height.It's not her beauty either................It's her behind.Damn!She's so blessed,talk of Kim Kardashian.Her waist is so tiny also.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               She walks to the back,swaying her hips.All eyes on her.She's so generous to let everyone look at her,especially the men and am sure she's happy about it.Did she just leave the front seats?Have no time to think about it because am listening to a conversation of two gentlemen seated near my table.Call it eavesdropping if you want,but the conversation is juicy.It's not a crime to listen,right?They are talking about different body shapes.One is saying that he preffers a curvy woman to a petite one.He's explaining how women starve themselves to acquire a model shaped body not knowing that African men want some''meat''.He's also saying that some women never take care of their bodies after giving birth and that's why they look................I'm not hearing the last word.He swears that he would do anything to change his wife's body.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Questions are bothering my mind.How does his wife look like?Is she petite?Or due to child bearing,she's.........His friend gets an opportunity to talk and tells him that beauty isn't physical at all.But still stares at the curvy lady.So ironic,right?I'm distracted by Nikki's song Anaconda.Oh!it's my phone ringing.No!it cant be.Steph,my girl is calling.She may be my best friend,but in times like this, no one want to be bothered.I take her call and requests her to make it quick for am in a middle of ''something delicate''.She want me to comment on her latest designs going viral in the internet.Well,good for her she's now a celebrated designer.But guess what?The gentlemen have already left.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  As am going through the internet,a certain quote draws my attention''TO ALL GIRLS WHO DIE FOR ZERO FIGURE,REMEMBER REAL MEN GO FOR CURVES,ONLY DOGS GO FOR BONES''.Really?I'm so shocked.What with our men anyway?Is this the reason why women are spending all their money on plastic surgeries,creams and bitter pills?See,i have no problem with any body's size despite my phone's ringtone.We have to appreciate ourselves and love that person whom we see on the mirror after looking at it.And it will be cool.Well,if you want to Kardashify yourself,do it the right way.Hit the gym and eat healthily.But never change your body because anyone has a problem with it.As for the men,it's time you stopped to be mean.