HINTS.

I really have this habit of ditching home cooked meals and take aways,rather I prefer eating out.Like there's something about sitting alone in a restaurant that is satisfying.So yesterday I went to my favorite fast food joint in town.It wasn't over crowded nor noisy,just as my preference.This means I had all the time to check my horoscope(this has been my ritual for some years now)and also read a book that I started not long ago(BECOMING MICHELLE OBAMA)thanks to Lucy my very good friend.This book ought to be read,especially by every woman.

So there's this old guy,in his sixties probably,who comes over and sits next to me.He has two bottles of soda and a smile on his face.He even says hi to me,something that makes me happy because that's how conversations start.I hate restaurant conversations but this a different type of a thing because it's with a stranger.An elderly stranger,who isn't hitting on me rather might knock some sense in my young brain.
I have so many elderly friends,something that shocks so many people especially my mum and she keeps on asking how I do it.I don't even know how it happens.I think am lucky and that's one of the best thing you can have,an eighty or more older granny sitting you down and talking about relationships and anything related to life.They are always honest and will never hide anything from you.

My old stranger sitted next to me kept sipping his soda and still held the other bottle.Something that made it weird,as if he was afraid it would vanish.For some minutes I thought the guy had dimentia.Trust me,I have dealt with a grand father with the condition and I know their behaviours.Sadly he passed away and I usually miss him.
He kept on checking his watch and glancing at me. Well, I had to ask him if he was in a hurry or waiting for someone.And with a huge smile he answered that he was waiting for someone special and took another sip.I couldn't question him anymore rather I decided to wait.And boom,the special person arrived.It was h

is wife and from the conversation they were having,I realized that their bond wouldn't be broken anytime soon.

As I was leaving the restaurant,I was thinking of so many things and I realized that love is underrated nowdays.Am a lover of love and I always get excited when people share their love stories.True love,real love,whatever name you want to call it.I think everybody wants love because it's a good and godly thing that makes our lives happier.
In as much as love is a strange and strong feeling that can't be forced.i believe hardwork is required.Or else how will the honeymoon stage be maintained.I have loved,like for more than ninety four million seconds and I always hear his voice and smell him almost everywhere.And am still loving.


But my question has always been,if lovers outgrow each other.I know friends do.And am sorry to all my friends because it might happen someday.Regardless of being tight,we have different dreams,visions,ideas and also we mature differently.I have had friends whom we've hanged out together for years and suddenly we couldn't click anymore.Like opinions on our things started to differ and that was the death of our friendship.
I have never forced people to respect my beliefs and that's why I will call it quits when it's start swaying.If you can't respect my lifestyle(from my dressing,hangouts to what am/not supposed to consume),you can't respect my relationships,you keep talking ill of the disabled regardless of your age,you continuously judge and act as if you are the angel of death to people's religion and the gay community(the LGBT in general)don't get me wrong,am very straight but I have much love and respect for this group.

We might have drifted apart with some friends but this doesn't make us bad people.But for my romantic relationship,I want us grow together.I want him to wait for me in a restaurant with a big smile and let everybody know that he's waiting for someone special.
If we share the same,let's pray in order to stick with what's serves us.